suami orang

Lately, macam banyak plak masalah rumah tangga yang I dengar melibatkan pihak ketiga.

Recently one of my close friends tanya I apa nak buat since she’s got black and white proof yang husband dia main kayu 3. I cakap, confront je lah. Then she plak cam 50-50. Reason being so, she’s 2 months pregnant and she’s living with her in laws and she’s not working. Hmmm tersepit lah camtuh. Mana she nak gie? Nak balik rumah mak, of coz lah cam susah sebab she tak keje. Takkan mak dia yang tua tuh plak nak kasik dia and her baby makan kan?

Memang tersepit.

Before that I dapat tau yang ada sorang my ex-colleague is going through a divorce coz her husband nak amik 2nd wife. She tak nak bermadu so she naik mahkamah tuntut cerai. Yang nie pon quite a messy and not to mention pain staking procedure.

So lets come back to how it relates to me.

Few days ago, Nas showed me sms dari sorang perempuan. Claiming to be someone yang gie kursus sama-sama dgn Nas hari tuh kat Jelebu. Bukan main seronoknya minah nie ayat laki aku.

Yang peliknya Nas dah cakap he’s married and about to be a dad in like 2 months time but she mati-mati nak jugak. Siap kasik sms konon sudi berkongsi susah dan beban bersama-sama lah bla bla bla.

Hoh?

So I called her up a day after that. Ye lah I nak tau if Nas pon main tepuk-tepuk tangan amai-amai kan in this situation. Rupanya she je yang kenal Nas tapi Nas tak kenal pon dia siapa sebab dia tak nak bagitau nama penuh and dari kumpulan apa. So Nas memang tak kenal.

Masa I call her up tuh, she banyak senyap. I takde lah serang mana pon. Just cakap elok-elok je ‘Tak baik kaco suami orang. Dah lah bini kepada suami orang tuh mengandung 7 1/2 bulan. Nanti besok u dah kawen, u tau lah susah senang nak jadik isteri nie’. Camtuh lah I cakap ngan dia. Lepas tuh I letak.

Semalam…boleh plak minah nie call. Saying stuff like ‘akak kena faham lelaki ada hak dalam Islam untuk berbini lebih dari 1′ and ‘akak tak fikir ke kebahagiaan suami?’.

I dah…aik boleh tahan minah nie nak lecture aku.

So I said ‘macam nie lah senang. U nak sangat suami I kan? Boleh. Memula u bayar kat I pampasan RM50 ribu then every month u kasik I at least RM1500, boleh?’.

Tau plak nak menjawab ‘kak, suami bukan untuk dijual beli’.

I cakap ‘memang suami bukan untuk dijual beli tapi awak nie bermain-main seolah-olah perkahwinan saya nie boleh je dibuat sistem barter. Jadik saya mintaklah wang pampasan dan wang saku bulanan. U can take my husband, gie main jauh-jauh. Nak? Ada RM50 ribu meh datang jumpa I. The same day itself I bawak u and dia gie jumpa kadi’.

My question here is…best ke nak kat suami orang nie? Apa yang best ek? Some say security. Some say suami orang karisma lain. Some say lebih pengalaman.

My advice is…tolong lah ek. Jauhkan lah diri anda dari suami orang. Tak perlu lah nak kaco-kaco laki orang sebab setau I, lelaki bujang berkualiti belom lagik pupus.

You will one day be a wife and be a mother. When that day comes, I sincerely pray that you get to experience at least once where your husband kena kaco dengan perempuan lain. Then you ingatlah kat I and kata-kata nasihat I kat you.

As far as I’m concerned, perkataan kongsi atau bermadu takde dalam kamus I.

 

should i or should i not?

I’m a bit torn apart as to whether I should continue with my Masters or not. Macam…hmmm ye lah kan lepas habis pantang, I pon tatau nak carik keje ke, nak concentrate butik ke…nak jadik stay-at-home mom ke…

Tapi kalo pk-pk, ape kaitannya kan kalo I nak sambung belajar pon sebab whatever I choose to do after I habis pantang pon, tak salah kan kalo I nak belajar lagik?

Sorang yang I tanya, dia kata bazir je you belajar tinggi-tinggi lepas tuh nak jadik SAHM.

Sorang lagik…cakap go for it sebab knowledge is unlimited.

Personally I rasa, it’s not your career that defines who you are but it’s your knowledge that sets you apart from the rest. Ada beza ek SAHM yang lepasan SPM and SAHM yang ada bachelors degree in pape je lah.

So pendek kata…I think I should sambung belajar.

Yang panjang kata is what I want to do lepas I habis pantang.

Kalo keje dengan orang, most probably gaji tak setimpal dengan keje. Tapi dapat mix with people as opposed to mengadap 2-3 orang yang sama je kat rumah. Dapat pakai baju cun-cun (nie penting jugak ok sebab boleh shopping).

Kalo concentrate on butik…ok jugak but bak kata someone kat rumah…business tuh business jugak tapi at early stages, bukak kedai biar orang jaga. Sebab takde jaminan lagi. Ok fine! Whatever lah.

Kalo jadik SAHM, best jugak. Dapat ngadap baby. Tapi…financially macam tak secured ek? Cuma temptation tak nak keje tuh memang ada lah sebab ada duit Usana yang masuk tetiap minggu. Maybe I should learn knitting or something?

Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I’m confused!!

I rasa I dah patut buat keputusan dari skang. Bukan tunggu baby keluar kan?

Or…apa ek?

Lepas tuh kan kalo nak sambung Masters, what field should I pursue?

Help?

 

i’m fat and i’m happy the way i am

Hari nie…tatau nak letak post nie bawak kategori apa sebabnya it’s a little about Usana and it’s like not really about Usana.

Semalam I dapat email from a silent reader. Dia nak remain anonymous and special request supaya I tak copy paste email dia. So, I respect lah her wishes. Tapi I dah tanya boleh tak kalo I nak ulas-ulas sket pasal her situasi and she said ok je.

Macam nie…she’s over weight. Menurut kata beliau…beliau nie dah boleh dikategorikan sebagai gemuk. And semua org sekeliling dia asyik merendah-rendahkan dia sebab dia gemuk. Asyik cakap benda macam ‘oh ko takkan dpt jodoh lah kalo gemuk’ or ‘ko takde sape akan nak sampai bila-bila’ or ‘ko akan jadik andartu lah gemuk macam nie’…

Masalahnya, she’s very happy with the way she is. She kata she takde inferiority complex what so ever sebab mmg dia takkan selesa kalo dia lose weight byk-byk. Macam not in her own skin lah gitu. Tapi satu jer her concern, she nak sehat.

Persoalannya di sini…boleh ke org over weight sehat? Masalah yg datang satu pakej dgn being over weight nie selalunya hyper tension (tekanan darah tinggi), sakit jantung and kencing manis.

No harm in trying kan? I dah advice her to control her food in take. Be realistic lah sket kan…nak suruh org givap makan something terus is keje gila. I nie pijak bumi yg nyata. In fact I takde langsung suruh anyone yg approach me pasal Usana benti makan itu, benti makan ini.

The main point here is food intake control. I like to call it FIC. Sebut bebetol, kang sebut salah lain plak jadiknya :p

Kalo ko seminggu makan char kuew toew sampai 5 kali…ko kurangkan lah. Makan lah 2 kali je. Kalo sekali ko gie mamak ko order beriani kambing satu pinggan penuh bukit…ko kurangkan lah. Order lah separuh pinggan je.

It’s all about control tau. Nothing can be stopped immediately. Itu dah cold turkey withdrawal method, which we all know very rarely works.

So back to the main story…kita cuba ya baby steps. She wants to be healthy without having to go through the whole losing weight process. I say we give it a try!

She has ordered Essentials + Proflavanol + Vit C, Nutrimeal + Fibergy (not to replace meals but more to help her cut down her food intake).

I say let’s do it!!

To you…I know you’re reading this…I’ll help you walk through this process ok. Give me your hand

 

USANA produces results!!

Not gonna say much this time. Nie kat bawah ada 3 testimonial yang hebat dan panjang :p

If any of u doubt apa I tulis, silalah mintak ya email tuan punya testimonial and I willingly akan bagi. Manalah tau kot-kot ada yang di luar sana kata ‘eleh Ary mmg lah tulis best-best sebab dia kan distributor’. Jadik, kowang yang was-was, tunggu apa lagi? Sama ada kowang cuba atau kowang duduk diam-diam je lah hahahahaa. Isk kejam plak rasanya.

K  dah dah. Baca je lah~

Weight Loss

Salam Ary,

Kak Yana nak berkongsilah berita kegembiraan Kak Yana dengan Ary. Dah 3 minggu Kak Yana minum Nutrimeal+Fibergy dan alhamdulillah Kak Yana dah turun 3kg. Sebelum ni masa Kak Yana beli Kak Yana tak cerita kan yang Kak Yana sebenarnya pengguna HL tapi HL dah mahal sangat. Terpaksa Kak Yana stop. Lagi satu dengan HL Kak Yana turun 2kg SAHAJA dalam masa 2 bulan jadi memang Kak Yana excited sangatlah dengan Usana. Kongsilah dengan pembaca-pembaca blog Ary ok!

Masalah Migrain

Tekakak! Tekakak! Tekakak!

Hihi semekomz. Tekakak sihat x?

Ins.Allah sihat kn dgn bb lg tu. Ni ibu suruh bgtahu kat tekakak yg ibu dh xde migrain.

Blh dh bau vanilla essence, skunk xde masalah. Hari tu ibu mnm air nescafe abah sampai 3/4 teguk. Ok jer kata ibu.

Lps tu berbuka kat Stabaks. Ibu pesan latte fuiyoh! Xde dh sakit kepala ibu.

Erm Farrah nk mintalar tekakak tunjuk mcm mana nk buat duet tu. Ye lar dh nk cuti kan……….nk buat duet. Calling calling Farrah. Ok lar, roger n out.

Semekomzzzzzz…………….

Pregnancy

Dear Ary,

Sorry if I have been quiet for the past month of so. Schedule has been hectic like mad. However long time no news I now come with great news. I’m pregnant!

It has  been 2 weeks so far and I have passed the critical 1 week mark. I’m currently on 1 month leave as my doctor advises (due to previous 4 miscarriages). He said that this time the condition of my uterus is so much stronger than before.

I have Usana to thank for this. I need to stock up on my supplies as well.

I know it’s really too soon but hubster and I have already been looking at names! Lol. I shall keep you updated on my progress.

Thank you so much! Who would have thought the thousands of ringgit I have spent, I could have saved and used only a few hundreds to help me conceive and keep the baby! On top of that my pregnancy this time is acne free. Amazing!

See you soon.

 

cut the credit

Between both Nas and I, we have had about 14 credit cards from various banks. Every single one of them had credit balance on them. And every month we were paying more than the minimum. How did we end up being the people we swore we would never be?

Circumstances lah.

Disebabkan Nas keje jauh gila, every month he had to come home at least once, sometimes twice. Semua tiket yg dibeli, was through credit cards. Then there was the auto debit of misc stuff. Insurance for example. Then there was petrol.

Then there was the occasional shopping spree. Walaupon susah untuk mengaku tapi I kena gak mengaku that I spent more than what I earned. Dah kata akan control, nak control bla bla bla tapi hakikatnya masa swipe tuh mmg tak sedar pun. End of the month tgk statement then mcm nyesal je.

Byk gila barang yg dibeli mcm kalo pk-pk balik, bukan diperlukan sgt pon. Come on 2 blushers in a month? Siapakah je pakai 2 blusher sebulan? Adakan kau pelakon opera? Bukannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn so tak payahlah asyik nak beli season nie punya eye shadow, season baru nya lipstick. Season je pon…

So last week the both of us sat down and settled 12 out of 14 cards. We then decided to potong semua 12 kad itu.Tinggal lah 2 je. 1 utk kecemasan and most importantly utk digunakan masa bersalin nanti. The other 1 for me to use coz I  bila keluar tak suka bawak cash more than RM100 at one time. Pernah kena ragut sekali, cukoplah taubat.

I’m really glad that Nas enrolled me in Usana. Nampaklah hasilnya. Paling best, I’m healthy because of the supplement and on top of that I dpt bonus gak.

I’m all smiles…for now hahahahahaha. Another 3 more months to go and sangatlah berdebar-debar.

p/s : I’m still not happy with my blog layout…

 

blog layout

Helpppppppppppppppppp I hate how my blog looks like. And this is a problem because I bukak je I dah tak semangat nak update. How ek?

Anyone? Ada ideas? Suggestions?

Tolonglah bantu wanita mengandung yg buta IT ini *sob* *sob* *lap hingus* *sob*

 

Usana Perfecting Essence

I dpt 2 testimonial berturut-turut pasal produk nie.

Sensé™ Perfecting Essence

theENHANCERS for: Loss of radiance and blotchiness

Discover a more youthful, luminous appearance with this gentle, creamy gel. Designed for sensitive skin, this illuminating formula dramatically reduces the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles using advanced DSR™ technology to improve skin’s smoothness, firmness, clarity, and texture. A breakthrough in skin-care technology, PERFECTING ESSENCE beautifully renews the skin, leading to visible improvements in skin tone and elasticity while it helps prevent future signs of aging from appearing. Beneficial for all ages, use this restorative treatment daily to reveal your healthiest, most radiant looking skin.

• Combats multiple signs of aging

• Contains three skin brighteners

• Gentle enough for sensitive skin

PERFECTING ESSENCE, which focuses on enhanced exfoliation and increased collagen production, provides long-term renewal and refinement for the skin. This illuminating facial treatment reduces multiple signs of aging through exclusive Dermal Surface Renewal™ (DSR) technology–a marine-source, age-defying complex enhanced with MMP inhibitors. DSR technology is clinically proven to visibly retexture, brighten, even, and firm the skin’s surface. It helps reduce existing signs of aging while helping to prevent new lines and wrinkles from forming in the future. PERFECTING ESSENCE is also free of alpha-hydroxy acids, so it is gentle enough for sensitive skin.

Makcik jiran kat apartment I nie, beliau dah berumo 49 tahun.

Pengakuan beliau (melalui mulut ek, takde email-email/sms-sms) :

Makcik pakai dah 2 minggu, terasa kulit lagi gebu dan halus. Nie bintik-bintik hitam pon dah berkurangan. Pori-pori pon dah mengecut byk. Balik raya hari tuh kan, adik-adik makcik tanya pakai SKII ke? Makcik gelak je, makcik kata taklah. Pakai Perfecting Essence. Boleh lah makcik berlagak sikit lepas nie (then she gelak-gelak and sambung berborak dgn my mom).

Next customer is Pn.Sri Laila, berumo 34 tahun.

Pengakuan beliau (melalui telefon call) :

The difference I nampak is the fine lines lah. Dah kurang banyak sangat especially near the mouth area and eye area. Really tak percayalah something so effective murah je harganya. First application already terasa beza. Skin so soft and moist. Nak apply tinted moiturizer after that pun so easy.

Yang I kalerkan merah tuh…itu sebenarnya yang penting utk I. I’m sick and tired already with all the products in the market that’s harming my skin slowly but surely. Sampai bila wehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh nak feed ur face with toxin?? Dah dah lah tuh, tolonglah carik yg selamat.

Kita nie kenalah bersabar sebab ye lah produk yang chemical free, toxin free nie mmg lambat sket nak nampak kesan kan but have faith lah ye…

I always advice my customers to use Sense products together with the intake of the supplements. Nampak kesan cepat gila tau!!

Remember, good skin has to come from inside and what better way to have it than Usana’s Essentials!!

 

kepada semua pembaca kerazee.wordpress…

From me and all my family members~

Maaf Zahir & Batin

 

ye lah ye lah

Some of my friends been asking me…apesal blog dah jadik mcm blog takde keje tapi promote MLM. Wehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh korang jangan lah camtuh, Usana nie bukan MLM ok.

Tapi ye lah I get the point kan, takkan every entry nak citer pasal Usana right?

To be honest, I don’t have anything much to blog about pon lately melainkan si kecik dalam perut nie yg buat perut I nampak mcm alien. And bz jahit manik utk baju…itu je.

Apa lagi sorang housewife nak buat kan melainkan lepak je dan makan. Makan pon…ntahlah, makan kan. Bosanlah kadang-kadang kena makan sebab tatau nak makan apa then kalo hari nie boleh telan ayam tetiba besok takleh telan plak. Wahhhhhhhhhh hebat anak tekak aku nie. Apa, ingat org kaya ke nak petik-petik jari then demand nak makan apa. Sesilap hari bulan kang kena simbah kari ayam ngan mak aku.

Oh selain itu, this coming Saturday, si kecik nie akan masuk minggu ke 24. So far, I only gain 1.5kg. Which is ehek sangat sokaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!! Little weight gain  means good. Si kecik sehat, panjang and berat pon mengikut skala although Dr.Jaswant said that si kecik nie panjang. Amin~ Jgnlah jadik katik mcm bapak mu, ooopppsss katik ke dia? Hahahahaa mampus kalo Nas baca. I mean takdelah Nas katik cuma among all his brothers, he lah yang paling pendek hahahahahaha :p

I would honestly like to remind everyone out there. Sindiket forex dah mula menular kembali kat Malaysia nie. What was once made illegal and banned is now rising again.

Tolonglah jangan terlibat dalam apa-apa yang sedemikian. Always remember, semua orang nak kaya cepat. Tapi ada ke such thing as dumping duit sekelopok macam tuh lepas tuh goyang kaki then duit masuk pon sekelopok? Mmg takde ok.

Please please anything you do or invest in, semak lah dengan Bank Negara. They’re very helpful. Syarikat tuh boleh nampak sekukuh mana dengan segala dokumen dan perjanjian but remember semua tuh tak berguna bila directors syarikat dah larik dengan duit kepol-kepol kau.

Buatlah laporan polis mana pon, what can they do? Yes, derang akan investigate and all but you can consider your money yang kepol-kepol tuh dead and gone.

Slamat pose beberapa hari je lagi nie!! Although aku byk plak tak pose tahun nie :p

Next entry prepare to bleed sebab ada 3 testimonial Usana~

 

splash!! splash!!

When I first saw this ad on Usana’s webpage, I was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo excited. Sib baik time tuh dah kol 11.3opm kalo tak mahu aku call ofis Usana tanya amende nie. Ye lah sebab takde dah info lain melainkan itu je. Saje-je kaaaa mau kasik thrill??

Splash, splash, splash!! Ada sedikit kecomelan di situ ek? :p

Anyways semalam pagi-pagi I dah call and mengacau dengan pelbagai soalan. Rupanya this personal care promotion covers 2 areas.

Body Care which consists of 2 body shampoo (RM89)

Sensé™ Energizing Shower Gel (220ml)

Wake up your shower with invigorating extracts of rosemary, lavender, and orange peel. This energizing, soap-free cleanser purifies your skin as it softens and hydrates. Wash away impurities to reveal healthy-looking skin that feels clean, refined, and revitalized. The juicy tangerine fragrance will have you looking forward to your shower every morning.

• Gently cleanses without drying

• Leaves skin smooth and hydrated

• Soap-free

A body cleanser must be gentle enough to avoid drying the skin, but effective in washing away impurities. ENERGIZING SHOWER GEL cleanses and conditions the skin without drying, while providing gentle exfoliation to eliminate dead skin cells. This invigorating formula with jojoba seed and avocado oils helps the skin retain moisture, leaving skin soft and smooth all day long.

Hair Care which consists of 2 shampoo and 1 conditioner (RM156)

Sensé Revitalizing Shampoo (250ml)

Ensure vibrantly healthy hair as you gently cleanse away impurities. Along with Proflavanol-T™ and Proteo-C™, this beneficial shampoo contains vitamins, plant extracts, and amino acids that promote optimal scalp condition and leaves your hair soft, shiny, and full of body. Excellent for color-treated or chemically processed hair, this unique formulation rebalances the natural oils in your hair while the fresh fragrance revitalizes your spirit.

• Delivers vital nutrients to help restore hair to natural softness and shine

• Promotes optimal scalp condition

• Safe for color-treated and chemically processed hair

Healthy hair reflects an inner balance much like a vibrant complexion does. Clean, nourished hair can be identified by its body, shine, strength, and softness. REVITALIZING SHAMPOO corrects hair imbalances with gentle cleansing agents and pure-plant extracts, while wheat protein, panthenol, and vitamin E promote optimal scalp condition. REVITALIZING SHAMPOO is safe and effective for all hair types, including color-treated and chemically processed hair.

Sensé Nourishing Conditioner (250ml)

Instantly moisturize and nourish your hair with this rich emollient of vital nutrients and botanical extracts. This creamy conditioner helps prevent styling and environmental damage while leaving it radiantly smooth and silky. Safe for color-treated or chemically processed hair, use this lightly scented formula every day for weightless shine and manageability.

• Provides nourishing ingredients to moisturize and strengthen hair
• Protects the hair’s cuticle from damage
• Excellent for color-treated and chemically processed hair

Freshly cleansed hair often needs extra protection and moisture. NOURISHING CONDITIONER contains a rich blend of emollients, vitamins, plant extracts, and amino acids to help give hair manageability, shine, and strength. Vital nutrients such as hydrolyzed silk and panthenol provide intense moisture to the hair and scalp, while wheat protein helps to mend split ends. Excellent for color-treated and chemically processed hair.

Please take note that it might be or might not be sold in Malaysia after this. This is really just a special promotion for Malaysian market. All sets are imported from the US and is limited. Habis tuh habis lah :p

Another thing is that harga di atas adalah harga autoship di mana lepas nie even members won’t be able to get this price (unless on autoship lah ek) so for me, it’s really a good deal.

So…korang tunggu apa lagi lah? Tak rugi cuba yang baru kan…mana tahu hilang masalah rambut gugur tuh. Boleh berangan rambut mcm Kak Pah