Why do men have the tendency to cheat when their wife is expecting? Kenapa perlu ‘makan luar’ or ‘carik makan di luar’? Kenapa harus?
Hello di sini ingin aku menegaskan bahawa (ayat wajib seorang debater) kaum wanita jugak mempunyai nafsu ketika mengandung. The only difference is, it makes having sex so much harder because of the back pains and perut boyot. So don’t fucking tell me that kaum lelaki perlu melepaskan air tertunggak at least sekali sebulan coz it’s just fucking bullshit.
I’m surround by people whos marriages are burning like a candle. No, bukan lagu Candle In The Wind oleh Sir Elton John ok, berbeza sangat meaning lagu tuh dengan teori bernas aku nie. Have you seen a candle burning? I mean, really look at it and stare at it for hours? I have and honestly it’s quite depressing.
Masa nyala tuh cam best giler je coz it lights up the room and the flame is so big. Then bila ada je angin sket the flame tends to get shaky. Kadang-kadang ada plak angin jahat yang boleh wipe out the flame sekali dengan candle-candle nya lah kalo angin tuh kencang.
Towards the end, the flame starts to get small and smaller and smaller and then it dies.
I’m not gonna sugar coat what I have to say in order to please people. I’m gonna be drop dead honest here and if anyone who reads it suddenly jadik certified judge and nak judge me, go ahead. It’s your choice anyway.
For the past 2 months or so I’ve been listening to stories from many girlfriends of mine who basically menyesal sebab kawen. As for me…it’s very subjective.
Apa positive points being married nie? Entah sometimes I pon tatau.
Like for me personally, being married means extra baggage as I have not only married Nas but apparently I have married his whole family.
*tiring*
I’m tired of being caught in the middle of things and having to make painful decisions.
So, currently 4 of my friends have cheating husbands. One more on the way. Pecah rekod siot. I’ve never encounted a situation where my advice macam applicable to all. Sekali nasihat, dimakan oleh 4+1 orang.
All 4+1 are thinking of getting a divorce. 2 are pregnant, 1 comes from a super kolot family di mana syurga seorang isteri adalah di bawah tapak kaki suami, 2 are housewives yang tidak ada income sendiri and 1 more has a 2 year old child.
Apesal dengan +1 tuh you ask? Simple because she only suspects her husband and has not caught him red handed yet.
Lemme tell you something ya, kuasa Allah tuh jangan diperlekehkan. Kalau Allah nak tunjuk suami you curang, He will lead you the way and show you.
Marriages are not made in heaven. They ARE NOT made in heaven. I wanna fucking kill the smart-ass who said it. Marriages work because people make it work.
What happens when a wife decides to stop making the marriage work? What happens when she has decided enough is enough? What happens when she feels that she has given her all, given her very best, given 101% to the marriage but her husband cheats?
Men who cheat are bullies. Men who cheat are insensitive bastards. I’m only talking about men whos wives are the noble kind ya, bukan jenis isteri yang merewang. Bini merewang bila suami baik, itu masalah kau, bukan masalah aku ok.
When a husband cheats, the first question a wife asks is ‘why?’.
Why? Ada kekurangan ke pada diri saya?
Even a top CEO who manages 600 staff will also ask the same question.
WHY?
Adalah amat lancau jika jawapannya ialah…NTAH.
I’m going to make a very bold statement here as this is based on my personal experience. 80% of men who cheat when their wife is pregnant are Malay men. Heck. lets make it 80% of men who cheat ARE Malay men. Adakah kote lelaki Melayu ada chop ‘kote ini memerlukan lebih dari satu pussy pada satu waktu’? Tak paham sungguh.
Men are capable of making women feel second place. Men are capable of making women question themselves. Always when a husband cheats, the wife tends to question herself ‘am I not good enough?’. No woman, you are good enough. In fact you’re too good for that roaming bastard of a husband of yours. It is he that’s not good enough for you.
Dump the fucker and move on. Easier said than done. Trust me, I know. I’m never gonna condone the fact that having more than 1 wife is acceptable.
Fuck people who use ayat ‘payung emas menunggu di sana’ nya ayat. Aku bukan nak payung emas di akhirat, aku nak payung emas sekarang, boleh?
So…sue me lah for my statements. Ada sesiapa nak contradict me on this one? Kalau ada sila postkan komen-komen anda ya.
Oh ha…seblom nak tibai I buta-buta…I’m also married to a Malay man.






