Ary Kerazee

Why men cheat?

Simply because they can!

When a man cheats, it always falls back on the woman. Like oooo maybe he’s not getting enough sex or oooo probably the wife/girlfriend/woman nags a lot or the famous ooooo it’s only physical no emotions involve.

But you see the irony is…when a man cheats and owns up, wah!! He’s a man! He dares to admit his mistake and he wants a second chance to make the relationship work. And we as women, we’re expected to give them the second chance.

What happens when a woman cheats? Usually let me tell you this, it’s because there’s something missing in the relationship.

To keep a woman happy is simple. Attention. It’s all they want and need. A little bit of recognition here and there and most importantly, not being taken for granted.

Why is it men always say “please baby, I don’t love her! I love you! It’s just sex!”

Oh…

Just sex?

Ok, I get it.

So you can stick your ’stick’ here there and everywhere for the sake of sex but I can’t open my legs here there and everywhere for the same reason that it’s only for the attention I seek?

Men bitch too.

They bitch a lot. And boy, when they bitch, your ears can bleed.

Trust me, I know.

Why do men cheat? It’s because they can when they want to. In this modern day society, it’s accepted. A study conducted showed that 9 out of 10 men in a relationship have been involved in an affair at one point through out their whole life.

Women? 2 out of 10.

Sad, I know.

But why do men cheat? Why do they cheat when they can get everything from their wife/girlfriend/woman?

When a man marries, he doesn’t lose anything. In fact he gains so much. An unpaid maid to do the laundry, cooking, washing, cleaning, ironing. An unpaid mummy to nurse you when you’re sick.  An unpaid whore for you to fuck when you want to.

When a woman marries…what does she get? Nothing. In fact, she gives you her whole life.

What securities?? Women work these days. An intelligent woman can support herself, regardless of what people say. We don’t need a man. Unless…we’re in the relationship because we can’t get out.

What’s keeping you in the relationship? Money? Sex? Company? What?

Pernah tak you tak suka this something or maybe…have never taken notice of something but when you see someone having it or tergila-gilakan on having it, you then suddenly decide you also must have it?

Tipulah kalo aku kata aku tak pernah. Time dedolo lah. Time sengkek, lebih kering kontang dari gurun Sahara. Aku kalau nampak je org menggayakan something then tetiba aku pon nak gak.Tapi takde lah sampai aku tengok Nicole Scherzinger dengan Lewis Hamilton tetiba aku pon nak kat Lewis Hamilton kan. Like I said in my previous entries…I don’t have interest AT ALL in laki org. Sebab apa? Sebabnya dia dah boleh dpt pussy tetiap hari jadi kalo dpt kat aku pon bukannya exciting mana. Baik nak kat yang lama tak dapat…syok jugak. Eh apa nie? Merepek plak tetiba.

Ok back to the story…

Dah lama lah tak rasa camtuh. Sejak monthly earning boleh cecah 5 figure, I seldom look at others. Style orang lain, itu orang lain lah kan.

Tapi semalam…

Semalam…

Something happened.

Aku tewas.

Aku tewas sebab aku inginkan sesuatu yg org  lain ada.

*sigh*

Siapakah orang lain itu? Itu aku tatau. Yang aku tau memang ada orang yang ada.

Tapi mahu dekat RM7k…

*sigh* Kena jual bulu lah gayanya…

Monday aku gado dengan mamat IT pasal claim dia. Bongok lah kau. Siapa suruh ko tak buat copy resit-resit seblom handover kat aku *kalau kau handover pon*

Tuesday aku gado dengan bos aku. Dah tau-tau kau tuh pelupa, sedarlah diri sket. Nie tak, dah lah pelupa pastuh hebat plak takmo ngaku pelupa. Dia amik resume dari meja aku, pastuh dtg mintak plak kat aku mana resume tuh. Dah sah-sah memang atas meja kau ler ngok!

Wednesday aku tak gado dengan sesiapa tapi ada cikgu ganti gado dengan cikgu bayang-bayang.

On another note, my face is starting to clear up thanks to *jeng jeng jeng* Clinique!! Tak sangka this simple 3 step product is all my skin needs. After having battled a long time with pimples and stubborn marks, I can finally testify that yes, this product really works for me.

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Although aku telah mengespend almost RM700 dengan pemberian voucher sebanyak RM70 dimana aku telah membeli satu jaket pink esprit, ianya adalah sungguh berbaloi~

People have complimented on the changes and I have done away with foundation for almost a month, cuma gunakan compact powder aja. Sorry ye kengkawan, to me a woman without powder and lipstick is just plain sickly looking and BORING!

Ok, I nak cuba bunuh fruit fly nie. Annoying gila. Suka je terbang kat telinga then when I want to smack it, I end up smacking my ear! Ouch!!!!

Kimak lu fruit fly!!